You know everyone — and it's your real wealth
You collect people the way other people collect things. You remember names, birthdays, the small detail someone mentioned once that made their face light up. You can walk into a room of strangers and leave an hour later with three new connections and a real sense of possibility in the air. It's not calculated — it's just how you're wired. You genuinely like people, and they can feel it. But you've also noticed something: when you need something — advice, an introduction, a door opened — you almost always know someone who can help. And that, more than any paycheck, is the thing that has carried you through every turn in your life. In the Ten Gods, Pian Cai (偏财) is the energy of connection and network. Its wealth is not stored in an account — it's stored in relationships, in goodwill, in the thousand small threads of trust you've woven over the years. This is a real form of abundance, and it's one that only grows the more you water it. The reframe: your people are not a resource to be used — they're a garden to be tended. The reason your network works is that you've always given before asking, connected people before needing a connection, shown up without keeping score. Don't stop now that it's paying off. Keep giving first. Keep collecting, keep connecting, keep showing up. The relationships you build aren't a side benefit of your life — they are your life, and they are your wealth. In a world that's getting lonelier and more disconnected, the person who knows everyone and genuinely cares is becoming the rarest, most valuable thing there is.